chemo (day 14)

We're up to day 14 on the official chemo schedule. Today was a double dose of chemo. One part delivered via IV and the other part delivered via shot. She responded pretty well in that the vitals were all ok. It was a bit of a tough day from a physical stand point, in that she was extra tired and had some extra pain. All in all, the important numbers are doing well and she's getting through this. The doctor initiated a discussion today about going home at some point. We're still a ways away from that, but the fact that he initiated a discussion about it is certainly a good thing.

Four weeks ago today, she woke me up around 6:30am and said "babe, we have to go to the hospital. I've been up all night and I don't feel well" and so our journey began. Not exactly the wake up that I was hoping for and I would have never imagined this is where we'd wind up. Perhaps it's a bit too early in this process to be overly reflective as we have a long path ahead of us, but we've been through some real ups and downs over these past 4 weeks and she's come such a long way from the day we heard the initial diagnosis, the start of chemo and the trip to the ICU. Now, she knows all the nurses and has made quite a few friends. Her room resembles a college dorm, in that she has a fridge, a ton of snacks, a bunch of games, a ton of cards, a bunch of red plastic cups.... and all the nurses come by to chit chat.

She wanted to thank Yesy (college friend) for sending the care package with Anna's favorite chocolate bars and a webkinz. Also, thanks to Ira and Chris with sending a musical Dr McDreamy card. I'm sure that made her feel better. Also, thanks to Ursula (aka maltamamma) for sending the "WOW, I FEEL GOOD" singing card. When did these musical cards become all the rage? I must get out more often.

Comments

DebbieDel's picture

You are awesome!!

Anna Banana: Thanks for thinking of me on my birthday (while I am thinking of you!). What a shock that your desk...um, I mean room, is the center of the universe!! Your inner light with your outer beauty makes you God's chosen - for all lifes up and downs. Keep on feeling, giving and praising the Love. P.S. I am in charge of the coming home party!!! Love ya lots!! P.S.S. Love ya too Tom!!

Shannon I's picture

So glad to hear!

Thanks for the update you guys. So glad to hear things are progressing well. Chemo days have to be so tough, but with the prospect of going home in the not too distant future... that has to be encouraging for all of you! Yeah, Ira was sooo proud of the McDreamy card. I'm sure you loved it! :) Leave it to Ira! Will check in with you later this week. thoughts and prayers,

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lisadolgos's picture

Such good news!

Anna, It was so good to talk to you yesterday - you made my day. Your positive energy is so strong, it's no wonder so many people love and care about you. I look forward to reading more of Tom's good news over the next several days. Love ya, Lisa

joans's picture

Sounds Good!!

That is such wonderful news that they are talking about going home!!!!!! Anna, I know that will be a very happy day for you!!! I am glad everything is still going well. You are a fighter!!! You are kicking its'-you-know-what!!!!!!

I will talk to you soon.

Love, Joani

nena's picture

Music to my Ears

I know it’s early but talk of Anna going home makes me want to get up and dance! Ay que alegeria!

XOXO,

Judy

Simon's picture

Lookin good.............

Hi Guys:
Glad to hear the Dr. is talking about going home and Mamita Mamita's room is happening!! Told you it was going to be "the place to be " in no time.

Don't worry about being reflective T, I am a big believer in reflection--- with yourself, with God, with others etc. --for me it is the process that leads one in the right direction whether you are going through a good patch or rough patch in your life. I always go for the jumbo pack o' reflection ;)

Mamita, Mamita--- despite being tired and the extra pain I am so glad you are maintaining weight, spirit and the knowledge that God is with you. You tell this disease where it can go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All is well on my end --- both boys in sports (Simon -football, Lucas- baseball) and keeping up with the dirty laundry (oh yeah TJ has that wonderful baby product smell now--- just wait) and their schedule is like working 2 additional jobs but, amazingly fun!!

Take Care, GB, Big Hug
Isa

bori77cuanyc's picture

Stay Strong

A bright and cheerful get-well wish
especially meant to say,
That many warm and friendly thoughts
are with you every day.

Joey Marrero & Family

Ira Goodman's picture

Dr. McDreamy - mmmmmm!

Hey Anna and Tom. So hard to believe that 4 weeks has gone by already. So glad that you are doing so well all things considered. Also glad that you liked Dr. McDreamy. Woof!! Someday Mamasita - we are going out in the city - No Tom, we promise, sorry Tom, but you know that Anna is safe with US!
Love ya both,
Ira and Chris

Kathleen K's picture

Hello from Albany!

Hello ....Just wanted to say Hello and I am thinking of you everyday. Tom your blogs are very informative. Are you sure your not a writer? Anna ..stay strong! It sounds like you are a great patient! Love, Kathleen

Stephanie H's picture

getting there

Hi Anna and Tom,
Wow, four weeks have passed? It has been quite a ride. I want you both to know that you have been really amazing -- and that is going to make all the difference in your success. Anna, sounds like you have the party room! Get some rest if you can.
With love and healing wishes,
Stephanie