Happy and sad
There are very few moments in life that are both happy and sad at the same time. Today was one of those days. Tino was officially adopted. This was sad day for us, as Tino was really a very special part of our family for the last 6 years. When changes like this occur, the event itself is often sad (ie. giving up Tino), but it is often the reflection upon the road behind and the road ahead that causes the greater influence upon emotions. While this was sad for us, we are absolutely thrilled with the outcome. Tino had been staying with Frank and Judy. Judy was the dog walker back when both Anna and me were working. Frank and Judy are great people, but they already have 14 (yeah, 14) dogs themselves and Frank wasn't going to have another one... especially the size of Tino. Frank/Judy apparently were at a halloween party in their neighborhood and they were just casually talking with an acquaintance. Somehow the conversation led to the fact that they guy really loves German Shepherds. One thing led to another, and first they took Tino home to give him a try and then really fell in love with him. They are a married couple with two kids, and a decent sized property on a lake in Northern Jersey. The guy apparently takes Tino for jogs/hikes most mornings and they have been kepping him very active. We really could not have asked for a better adoption scenario and for this we are truly happy.
In other news... .we had a great weekend. My sister came down on Saturday and we hadn't seen her since all of this started. TJ got along with her instantly and it was great to see her. My mom and sister went home Saturday and Lele flew back home to Orlando. Also, TJ went into NY with Anna's parents and by 10pm, the house was pretty quiet. Anna and I went out to breakfast this morning and ordered take out tonight. It was a pretty relaxing day all around. Anna heads back to the hospital tomorrow and then heads into the city. She was a bit achy and tired from the Chemo this weekend, but did feel good enough to get out of the house for a couple of hours.
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And somehow we go on!
Dear Anna, Tom & TJ, I'm feeling very sad and sorry for you all regarding "Tino". It's so hard to loose our pet buddies; they're family afterall. But it happens, and somehow we go on. On flip side, sounds wonderful how things worked out for you all. I think Tino has found a good home. Glad to hear you guys have been up and around, and out a bit. As always, I wish the best for you all. I understand from you Dad, Tom, that TJ is quite the guy, and that he has adjusted as well as possible. That's great! You, Tom, Anna and TJ - - are a wonderful and beautiful family. Take care, my love, prayers and blessings are with you. Keep the Faith! Aunt Cheryl
Tino
I'm so happy to hear that Tino found a good, loving home. It sounds like he will not be lacking the right attention with this family. I know how sad it must be for you even though you did the best thing for him. Don't tell my Lucy, she will definitely be envious of the morning jogs/hikes! The fat lab needs it bad!
Anna, I will definitely be in touch after the 17th to see when you are up for company. I know you said Bianca will be with in December so I don't want to take away from your time with her. After the holidays would be great too. But any time you are up for it I would love to see you. Take care, Lisa
aww Tino, but great news still
Hi folks,
What good news about Tino and his adoption. I know that while you are both a little sad you are also pleased with the outcome and Tino's new family. Congrats.
Happy to hear that you were able to take some time by yourselves and just relax. My prayers will continue.
Love,
Stephanie
Tino
I know how much Tino means to you guys. He was and is your first baby so it makes me sad to know that he's moving with another family.
:(
Judy
Hi There!
With all the sadness that goes along with saying goodbye to Tino, you have to be so happy that he's in another loving home. I'm sure he misses you as much as you miss him, but in the long run, just knowing he's settled in, has to be somewhat of a relief. So glad to hear that you did get some down time by yourselves. Probably weird having it so quiet around, huh? Thank you for the updates on Ms. Anna, Tom. Sorry to hear that there's still pain in the mix, Anna, but guess it's just part of the deal, huh? Have a good week you two. Ts & Ps, shannon
Happy and sad; this is life indeed
So happy to read about Tino even with the emotional sadness attached for both of you. More happy to read about you and Anna spending some really nice time together. love you guys.
Ira and Chris